Frequently Asked Questions

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How do we get invited to your club?

You do not need an invitation. Just come on out during club hours, fill out a membership application, pay and come on in!!

How do I join?

Joining the club is fast and easy.

What types of memberships can we purchase?

There are many membership options available. Watch the video for more information.

Are drinks served at the club?

The club does not serve alcohol, but welcomes members to bring their own! We have set ups for sale and if we don’t have what you drink, we will do our best to get it for you. In the meantime, if you bring your own, we charge a fee to bring it in of $3 up to 16oz. We do not allow coolers. If you must bring a cooler we will keep it safe for you behind the bar. The liquor stores in the Dallas area close early…@ 9PM…so be sure to buy yours before you come to colette.

What should I wear?

Most people dress as though they are going to a nightclub. People familiar with the lifestyle tend to dress a little bit more risque, such as lingerie, short/tight dresses, etc. However, you may wear WHATEVER you are comfortable in. We would like to see you dress as though you were going out to an upscale restaurant. For the guys, this could mean a polo, button-down or casual shirt or designer t-shirt with slacks or nice jeans and some men prefer to wear a jacket. We ask that the guys do not wear work jeans, sports shoes, jerseys, oversized clothing, baggy shirts, shorts or hats of any kind. For the ladies, anything from a semi-formal, casual or party dress or a sexy outfit is fine. Some women prefer to wear lingerie. Fetish, leather, and gothic wear are always welcome! Dressing in theme can also be fun!! PLEASE make sure your clothing is street worthy while entering or leaving the club. You may avoid attracting outside attention by wearing a light coat, jacket or sarong.

It’s our first time. What should we expect?

The most important thing to understand is that nothing is ever expected of you. You may simply dance, talk, or watch. We have many regulars that do just that. Of course, if you decide to partake, that’s OK too! Our members are very respectful creating a comfortable enjoyable atmosphere. You are ALWAYS in control.

What are the members like?

Our members range in age from 21-60; most are professionals. Our clients are very friendly and respectful, creating an atmosphere that is easy to feel comfortable in. Click the video below for more information.

I am a single guy. Can I come to the club and what should I expect?

Single men are welcome every night except Saturday which is couples and single women only. You can expect to meet open minded couples and single women. It’s important to be well mannered and dress to impress. For videos and other useful information for single men coming to the club please go to openlove101.com.

What time should I arrive?

As early as possible! Watch this video for mroe information.

Can you tell us more about the nightly themes?

We have an wide variety of themed nights for our members. Check out the video for an overview.

Additional FAQs

Watch this video for the questions you may have not thought to ask.

Can I come to the club to get a membership?

Yes. You must come to the club in order to apply for membership. An application will need to be filled out and you must have ID. Upon review by our staff and payment of the membership fee,we will provide you with your membership. The entire process takes only a few minutes and then you are welcome to enjoy our facilities.

Are people aggressive or pushy?

No. Our club members are very respectful of one another. ‘No’ means just that, ‘no’. Anyone with inappropriate behavior will be asked to leave the club.