Planning a visit to colette New Orleans? Find answers to common questions about membership, what to wear, what to expect, and preparing for your evening in downtown New Orleans. Read the guidance below and hear more in the accompanying videos. For details about a particular event, check the New Orleans event listing before you visit.
A first evening at colette is mostly about getting your bearings. These answers cover what to expect when you walk in and who you are likely to meet. New to all this? Start with the free lifestyle club newbie guide.
Your first visit can be an opportunity to get comfortable with the atmosphere. You can spend time talking, dancing, or simply taking things in. There is no expectation to participate in intimate activity. Discuss your comfort levels beforehand, respect other guests' boundaries, and take the evening at your own pace.
colette brings together people interested in meeting others in an open-minded social setting. Members come from a wide range of ages and backgrounds, many of them professionals, and everyone in the room is 21 or over. Some guests have been part of the lifestyle for years, while others are exploring it for the first time.
There is no need to compare your experience with someone else's. Introduce yourself, be considerate, and give each person room to choose how they want to interact.
Joining starts with the membership information and the requirements for the night you plan to attend. These answers point you to the right place to check before you arrive.
Start by reviewing the club's membership information and the requirements for the evening you plan to attend. If this is your first visit, contact the team with any questions about applying, identification, or check-in. Understanding the process beforehand helps you arrive prepared and gives you time to address anything specific to your visit.
Review the club's current membership information to compare the available options and choose the one that fits your plans. Check what each option includes, how long it remains valid, and whether admission to your chosen event is included or charged separately. If anything is unclear, the club team can explain the applicable terms before you purchase.
Yes. Single men are welcome at colette New Orleans every night except Saturday. Individual events can carry their own requirements, so check the listing for the evening you have in mind, or ask the club team if you are unsure.
When you attend, follow the dress requirements, introduce yourself respectfully, and accept that other guests may or may not be interested in interacting.
Single men are held to the club's strictest dress standard: a collared shirt, slacks or nice jeans, and dress shoes.
A little preparation makes the night easier. These answers cover what to wear, what you can bring, when to arrive, and how theme nights work.
Plan an outfit appropriate for an upscale night out, and review the club's current dress requirements before visiting. Theme nights can provide inspiration, but your outfit should still meet the club's standards. Choose something you feel comfortable wearing, and make sure you are appropriately covered when entering or leaving the venue.
For the ladies, a semi-formal, casual or party dress or a sexy outfit all work, and lingerie, fetish, leather and gothic wear are welcome. For the gentlemen, a polo, button-down, casual shirt or designer t-shirt with slacks or nice jeans, and a jacket if you prefer. Single men are asked for a collared shirt, slacks or nice jeans and dress shoes.
colette New Orleans does not serve or sell alcohol, so guests bring their own. Set-ups and ice are available, mixers are free, and premium mixers can be purchased at the bar.
Plastic and styrofoam coolers are not allowed. If you bring one, the staff can move your beverages into an ice bucket and check the cooler for you to collect on the way out. If you would rather keep your own cooler with you, bring a cloth backpack or satchel style cooler.
Use the event listing to confirm the opening time and any scheduled activities for your evening. Give yourself time to complete check-in and get comfortable, especially on a first visit. If you need advice about arrival timing or have a question about late entry, contact the club before heading out.
Themes give individual events their own character and can offer inspiration for your outfit and evening. Check the event description for the theme, any special activities, and applicable clothing guidance. Follow the club's dress requirements, and contact the team if you are unsure how a particular theme works.
These answers stand on their own without a video, but they matter as much as anything above.
Respect for personal boundaries is essential. Ask before initiating physical contact, accept a declined invitation without pressure, and remember that anyone can change their mind. You are not obligated to participate in an activity because you attended the club or previously expressed interest. If an interaction makes you uncomfortable, speak with a member of the staff.
This additional FAQ video is another resource as you prepare for a visit. For a question about your own plans, contact the club team.
For questions about your visit to colette New Orleans, contact the club team. For more about communication, relationships, and exploring the lifestyle, visit our Community & Education page.
Prefer to call? 504.588.1517
colette New Orleans is on Gravier Street in the heart of downtown. Hours are Wednesday and Thursday 9PM to 2AM, Friday and Saturday 9PM to 4AM.